An Otter Blessing

A few days ago, it was 105° outside. I was determined to take my daily walk, so I laced up my shoes, grabbed my dog, Libby, and drove to a trail just across the river from our house.

I hadn’t been there in a while, but from what I remembered, the first half meandered along a cliff overlooking the water and led down to a beach of tiny rocks. The second half led through a tall forest canopy and ended back at the trailhead parking spot. It was only a mile and a half long and seemed like a perfect walk for a summer day.

When we got there, Libby was not inclined to get out of our van because the parking area was a sweltering open field. I encouraged her with treats and promises of adventures to come, so she grudgingly hopped out.

The first few hundred yards of the hike were a lot sunnier than I remembered, and once we got into a little bit of shade, the trail also became much steeper than I remembered.

Libby stopped every few feet as if to say, “Seriously? We’re doing this now?”

By the time we got to the cliff, she was panting, and I was drenched. My sunglasses slid repeatedly down my wet nose, and elbow sweat dripped down my forearm into my hand and onto Libby’s leash. Hot perspiration puddled in my clothes and underwear.

Needless to say, it was not the relaxing summer hike I envisioned. I considered turning back, but since we were already halfway, we trudged on. I cheered up a little when we reached the path that led to the river.

It was still scorching hot, but I found a rock to sit on, and the sound of the gurgling river was refreshing. I dangled my toes in the cool water as Libby waded out to survey the area.

Suddenly, I saw a flash of movement on a nearby rock, and a river otter skittered by. Another otter quickly joined him, and they played and splashed together like two toddlers. Libby and I were both spellbound as we watched their delightful antics.

When the otters finally jumped into the water and swam away, Libby and I started back on our walk. The return loop was just as shady as I remembered; a cool breeze filtered through the leaves, and I was invigorated by the lovely otter show we’d experienced.

I’m still thinking about those cute, playful creatures today.  Even though I walk on my side of the river almost daily, I’ve never seen otters.  I’m grateful to have spotted them: glad I persevered and didn’t turn around early; thankful I wasn’t so distracted by my distress that I missed them. 

Perseverance and presence aren’t always easy when we’re suffering. The experience was a good reminder that sometimes we have to go through bad stuff to get to the good stuff…and that even in the middle of the bad stuff, we can find something to be grateful for.

So when it’s hard and uphill, don’t give up – you just might see an otter.

On Being Fickle

It is 92 degrees on this second to last day of September. Thunder rolls in the distance, while heat lightening dances overhead. The air is so humid that the dog and I are sweating and panting after the first few steps of our walk.

Where are the cool, crisp days of autumn?” I lament.

Then I recall how just a few days ago at work I shivered in my white coat despite three layers underneath, and secretly prayed the office air conditioner would break. That day I longed to feel warm.

And in just a few months, when I go out for a walk in the snow, today’s weather will come to mind. I’ll wish for my sweaty T-shirt and shorts instead of my heavy boots and stuffy parka.

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Me and Elton John: Thoughts on the Simple Life

Who would have thought that a noisy, crowded rock concert would remind me of the joys in my simple life?

I climbed into my seat high in the arena last month and waited excitedly with 25,000 other noisy fans for Elton John to perform one of the concerts in his final tour. Suddenly, without fanfare, he appeared at the piano and started to play. His sequined jacket flickered like a million tiny stars every time he moved. The mirror over his keyboard reflected his stubby fingers as they pounded out the melody, and the jumbotron showed a bright pink scarf framing his aged face.

With my eyes open, I was clapping and singing along with everyone else, but with my eyes closed, I was transported back in time. I saw my dad humming Someone Saved my Life Tonight while my siblings and I argued in the back seat of his baby blue Cadillac. I saw myself making a chart of life goals as I sang I’m Still Standing. I saw my husband dancing to Can You Feel the Love Tonight with one of our baby girls wrapped in his arms. Continue reading →