Week 4: Build up Others

In some ways, this week’s idea is a continuation of the last, and builds on the idea of speaking gently and respectfully to encourage others. Words have the power to wound and hurt, but they also have the power to inspire and heal. Our sweet comments can do immeasurable good in this wounded world, and there are opportunities every day to recognize and appreciate one another.

For from the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks. I tell you, on the day of judgment people will render an account for every careless word they speak (Matthew 12:34,36).

We can use our words to complement another’s hard work instead of letting it go unnoticed: try to give at least one sincere compliment every day.

We can use our words to show gratitude for kindness rather than taking it for granted: try to say thank you for even small gestures

We can use our words to remind those we love how much they mean to us: take time to tell your spouse or children you love them. Not just a quick, “Love you!” as we run out the door to work or school, but with heartfelt attention in a quiet moment.

Kindness begets kindness, and our appreciation for others soothes our own hearts as well.

Pleasing words are a honeycomb, sweet to the taste and invigorating to the bones
(Proverbs 16:24).

Let’s continue using our words to make the world a sweeter place. Come back next week for one last idea. See you then!

-colleen

Excerpts taken from: Arnold, Colleen. “5 Steps toward Better COMMUNICATION.” St. Anthony Messenger, vol. 129, no. 8, 2022, pp. 31-34